送花，是有訣竅的。
說到花，大概沒有女人不愛的。
雖然，男人們其實很困惑不解，不知道這些很快就會枯萎凋謝的花究竟有什麼好？不過，反正女人愛，識相的男人也懂得送花討好女生。只不過，男人雖然知道花對女人的重要性，但對於送花的方式和時機，卻是蠢得很，經常犯錯，以至於花了大筆錢送花，卻落得被人討厭的下場。
＜秘訣1＞
大紅玫瑰 不是誰都送得的
還沒追到手，還不了解對方心意的時候，千萬不要送九十九朵大紅玫瑰（最好是根本不要送花，免得反而被討厭）。有一些愛耍浪漫，自以為是把妹高手的男人，總喜歡送上超大把玫瑰花，以為玫瑰花多就等於心意足。
女人雖然喜歡被送花，但卻討厭蒼蠅送花。如果被歸類為蒼蠅，已經印象不好，那麼，送的花越大把、越正統（正紅玫瑰），越容易被討厭。還在追求，戀情還沒明朗時，最忌諱送大紅玫瑰。如果真的要送，最好是送桔梗等顏色比較溫柔、花朵不會很霸氣、刺眼的花，也不要太大把，比較合適。
只有剛追到手的熱戀期， 或者情人節、週年紀念日等特殊日子，才適合送大把玫瑰花。但也不是什麼女生都適合，最主要還是得看女生的個性。小公主型的當然送玫瑰不錯，野蠻女友的話恐怕不見得適合。男生送花給女生，等於告訴女生你在我眼中是什麼樣子。紅玫瑰就太老套，還是想些能讓人感到別出心裁，又能恰如其分形容你的女伴的花來送比較妥當。
＜秘訣2＞
姿態要低調 效果要高昂
如果和女方的關係，已經進展到可以送花的地步，千萬別吝嗇送花，特別是情人節、生日等重要節日。而且，花千萬不要私底下默默的送給女生。那種把花送到情人家門口，從頭到尾沒有第三者看到的方式是效果最差的（女生雖然也會感動，但卻不能將感動極大化 ）。
送花，一定要送得剛剛好，讓女生驚喜之外，還要順便滿足女人愛炫燿的競爭虛榮心。
生日和情人節是一定要送的，不過就這麼單送，無法引發驚喜。最好的作法，像情人節前一天就先送，週年紀念日更要送。而且，打算送花之前，最好先向女伴探探口風，了解過去她的同事收過什麼樣的花、引起什麼反應等等，再根據女伴的說法安排最合適的花束。
最好的送花方式，是事先安排好，請花店送到女方工作的地點，且最好在上班時間，眾目睽睽之下，讓女方簽收。千萬不要自己登門去送，這樣就太高調，且破壞了神秘感。讓花店的人送花，自己只要寫張祝福小卡片就夠了。當花送到辦公室時，肯定會引起一波騷動，辦公室的同事一定會交頭接耳的討論。等到女方收下花時，肯定會引來圍觀羨慕、讚嘆討論，以及女同事責罵自己男人的各種言論。雖然女生當下可能非常客氣的推託謙虛，但其實聽在心裡，非常舒服受用。
＜秘訣3＞
滿足女方虛榮心 替感情加溫
花得送得讓女生喜歡，而且還能自然地向同事炫耀，將其他同事比下去。最要緊的是，每次都要送不一樣的花，千萬不可重複。萬一被同事發現還指出來，那可就炫耀不成反丟大了臉，很可能抵銷送花的所有效果，不可不慎。
另外，共進晚餐也是送花良機。可以請花店先把花送到餐廳，請餐廳簽收。等吃完飯，氣氛到最高潮的時候，再請服務生將花拿出來，交給女伴，肯定能引來在場其他客人的羨慕讚嘆眼光，此時，花不但替感情加溫，還滿足了女人的虛榮心和優越感，這樣送花，才能讓女生感到最受用、貼心，幸福洋溢。
Sending flowers is awkward.
When it comes to flowers, there may be no women who don’t love.
Although these men are actually confused, I don’t know what is the flower that is about to wither and disappear. However, in any case, women love, knowing each other’s men know how to send flowers to please girls. However, although men know the importance of flowers to women, they are stupid and often make mistakes in the way and time of sending flowers, so they spend a lot of money to send flowers, but in the end they are hated.
<Secret1>
No one will send a red rose.
Haven’t caught up yet, don’t know the other person’s mind, don’t send 99 red roses (it’s best not to send flowers, lest you get angry). Some men like to play romance and think that they are the masters of sisters. They always like to send oversized roses and think that more roses are equal to the heart.
Although women like flowers, they hate flies and send flowers. If it is classified as a fly, it has been impressed, so the bigger the flower, the more orthodox (red rose) the more easily annoyed. Still in pursuit, when the relationship is still unclear, the most taboo is to send a red rose. If you really want to send, it is best to send the platycodon and other colors are very gentle, the flowers will not be very domineering, the glaring flowers, not too big, more suitable.
It is only suitable for sending a large number of roses on a special love day after catching up, or on special days such as Valentine’s Day and Anniversary. But this is not the right girl, the most important thing is to look at the girl’s personality. Of course, the little princess sends a good rose, but the savage girlfriend may not be suitable. The boys give flowers to the girls, which is equivalent to telling the girl how you look in my eyes. The red rose is too old-fashioned, or think about the clever flowers and can properly describe your female partner.
<Secret2>
The posture should be low-key and the effect should be high
If the relationship with women has grown to the point where you can send flowers, don’t send flowers, especially important holidays such as Valentine’s Day and birthdays. In addition, flowers should not be given to girls silently. The way flowers are sent to the lover’s door, from the beginning to the end, no third party is the worst effect (girls will be touched, but not maximized).
Sending flowers must be delivered just right, surprise the girls, and see the love of women by the way, showing off the vanity of competition.
Birthdays and Valentine’s Day will definitely be delivered, but they are so single and not surprising. The best way is to send it the day before Valentine’s Day and the anniversary will be sent. Moreover, before planning to send flowers, it is best to first explore the style of the female partner, understand what kind of flowers her colleagues have received in the past, what kind of reaction, etc., and then arrange the most suitable bouquet according to the female companion.
The best way to send flowers is to arrange in advance. Please send the flower shop to the place where the lady works. It is best to let the woman sign the work during working hours. Don’t go out and send it yourself, it’s too high-profile and destroys mystery. Let the flower shop people send flowers, as long as you write a small Fu card is enough. When the flowers are sent to the office, it will definitely cause a commotion, and colleagues in the office will definitely talk to each other. When a woman receives flowers, it will definitely cause embarrassment, admire the discussion, and all kinds of remarks made by female colleagues. Although girls may be very polite to promote modesty, they are actually very comfortable to use.
<Secret3>
Satisfy a woman’s vanity, warm feelings
It took a lot of time for girls to like it, it is natural to show off to colleagues and compare with other colleagues. The most important thing is to send different flowers every time, never repeat. If it was discovered by a colleague, it can be pointed out that it will not be a big problem. It is likely to offset all the effects of flower delivery.
In addition, dinner is also a good opportunity to send flowers. You can ask the florist to send the flowers to the restaurant first and ask the restaurant to sign. When the meal is over, when the atmosphere reaches its climax, ask the waiter to bring the flowers out to the female companions, which will definitely attract the envy of other guests present. At this time, flowers not only warm the feelings, but also satisfy the woman’s vanity and superiority, so that the flowers can make the girl feel the most useful, the most intimate and the happiest.
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